DOING ME IN 2014! Courage is being myself everyday in a world that wants me to be someone else.  I prefer to be hated for who I am than to be loved for who I am not.  I don’t compare myself to others because no one in the entire world can do a better […]

Dear Church Lady, Is there such thing as loving your man too much? I love my man and everything I do is with him in mind. The problem is my friends and family think I am crazy, naïve, stupid because he doesn’t have a job or money to pay bills but I am ok with […]

WHAT GOD VALUES  (Jeremiah 22:3) “This is what the Lord says: Do what is just and right.  Rescue from the hand of his oppressor the one who had been robbed  Do no wrong or violence to the alien, the fatherless or the widow, and do not shed innocent blood in this place.” In the middle […]

ALWAYS ASK THE QUESTION If you never ask questions, you’ll never get answers.  You can wait for answers to your questions to drop out of the sky, but sometimes you have to take initiative and ask questions.  Consider this a push for us to remember “in all things get understanding” and in order to get […]

Tony nominated performer, Valisia LeKae’s has proven to us time and time again that stage is her platform and performing is what she was born to do.  But, today Valisia has a new platform to reach millions after being diagnosed with ovarian cancer, six months after Motown The Musical hit broadway where she portrayed Diana […]

Dear Church Lady, My heart is hurting and I am a nervous wreck because I believe my son is gay and I do not have the courage to confront him because deep down inside I don’t want to know the answer. He hasn’t admitted he is gay but his behavior, his clothes and his friends […]

WHEN WILL ENOUGH BE ENOUGH Author, Producer, Talk Show Host and Pastor of a mega-church in Texas, Bishop TD Jakes says “Pastors are expected to do a lot while surviving on crumbs”.  Wow, what a statement!  Bishop Jakes goes on to say, pastors are overworked, underpaid and discouraged by the reaction of some members when they […]

Is it true?  I can sue the man who promises to marry me; who knew?  All this time I thought promises were meant to be broken.  $50,000 says apparently not! Read more at http://tinyurl.com/kdaas3x Source:  Gawker Photo Credit:  Unknown

Til Death Do Us Part!!! HE’S NOT PERFECT AND YOU AREN’T EITHER AND THE TWO OF YOU WILL NEVER BE PERFECT.  BUT IF HE CAN MAKE YOU LAUGH AT LEAST ONCE….CAUSES YOU TO THINK TWICE AND IF HE ADMITS TO BEING HUMAN AND MAKING MISTAKES, HOLD ON TO HIM AND GIVE HIM THE MOST YOU […]

I WANNA KNOW WHAT LOVE IS! You grow up believing Romeo & Juliet’s love story was real. And guess what…it was!  Every young girl wanted her Romeo and knew he would come someday.  Then you wake up one morning and find yourself sleeping with a married man or in a same sex relationship and afraid […]

Dear Church Lady, I’ve been married for 15 years to the same man and while he is a good man and loves me dearly, I am just not attracted to him anymore. Don’t get me wrong, I love him. He is my best friend and has taken care of me and our household for all these years. […]