Opinion

In an era where social media is king, it only takes one RT to get you completely caught up with drama and nonsense. It seems as though Pastors have been getting it the worse. We all remember Bishop Eddie Long’s  disastrous social media display, when pictures of him in tights standing provocatively in the mirror hit the internet. Now Pastor […]

It molds most of us, it helps many of us grow, it decides our life course and it even defines each of us as a unique individual. Religion. Scoring high as one of the most controversial topics to date, Religion and the varying religious views of the world make for many of the headlines we […]

Sistahs!  Look Younger and Slimmer When it comes to aging gracefully and beautifully, black women are extremely fortunate.  The way we walk and talk; the texture of our hair and our curves are to die for.  Black women represent power, strength, grace and beauty.  But sometimes we forget how blessed we are to be fearfully and […]

(The photos in this article are of a few young black men that are associated with my life through friends and family. Do you value their lives as much as you do the children in your life?) (Meet Naseer. Do you value this young man’s life? – pictured above) In August of 1955 a 14-year-old […]

Philadelphia Police are investigating an incident that occurred on January 7th, 2014. The incident involved an African-American teenage boy named Darrin Manning, and a female officer from the Philadelphia Police District. The young man, who attends Mathematics Civics and Science Charter School, was getting off the subway with his basketball teammates when he was confronted by several police […]

Dear Church Lady, Is there such thing as loving your man too much? I love my man and everything I do is with him in mind. The problem is my friends and family think I am crazy, naïve, stupid because he doesn’t have a job or money to pay bills but I am ok with […]

  Dear Church Lady I am engaged to be married. The hall is paid for, 250 guests are invited. I have a fabulous ring and have had a great relationship for 2 yrs. My boyfriend is great and we never had problems. He tearfully confessed to me that he had sex with a stripper at […]

Dear Church Lady, Is there such thing as loving your man too much? I love my man and everything I do is with him in mind. The problem is my friends and family think I am crazy, naïve, stupid because he doesn’t have a job or money to pay bills but I am ok with […]

ALWAYS ASK THE QUESTION If you never ask questions, you’ll never get answers.  You can wait for answers to your questions to drop out of the sky, but sometimes you have to take initiative and ask questions.  Consider this a push for us to remember “in all things get understanding” and in order to get […]

Adrian Harrison & son Malcolm X. Harrison How can you tell when someone is lying to you? Can you read it in their face, see it in their movements or speech? What if you can’t see their face or aren’t in their presence; can you still tell if they’re lying? What if they presented an […]

Dear Church Lady, My heart is hurting and I am a nervous wreck because I believe my son is gay and I do not have the courage to confront him because deep down inside I don’t want to know the answer. He hasn’t admitted he is gay but his behavior, his clothes and his friends […]